10 Ways How To Attract Someone You Like

Do you know any great and inspirational person in your life? You know those persons who are simulative, who inspire you to learn more, laugh more or simply force you to turn your bad day into the nice shiny afternoon. It seems that they don’t bother at all about their behavior. Everything about them is quite simple and they don’t even know what people think about them. They are adorable.

However, when you adore someone, it’s more than sympathy. You feel that person is funny and attractive, that’s for sure, but you also need his company whole day and feel lonely when that person is not there. But, you also have a special opinion about that person. You can think that he is honest, intelligent or has more energy than you so sometimes you really want to be like that person. Even you think that he is your friend, you may feel a little rejected by him because he is much more interesting than you.

Whatever you think about that person, don’t fetter yourself and feel like you are a person with low value than other people. There is a way how to attract a person who is absolutely perfect and be equal with her in any circumstances. There is a list of the steps you should follow in order to attract the attention of that special person who adores you.

1. BE WHAT YOU ARE

It’s not hard to imagine how annoying and boring is when the person constantly trying to be somebody else. He is very interesting at first until we don’t notice what he want to represent, but after that it really becomes tiresome. So, try to be what you really are instead. Find what your best qualities are and keep them as your trademark. People are usually not aware of the fact that although they are not perfect, they are still interesting enough to attract someone’s attention. As the matter of fact, everybody has some special performances and should show them every time he can. Next time when you are in the company of the person you adore, keep in mind that everybody has something which they find bad, but for somebody else that can be even charming.

2. BE NATURAL

Yes, you know what this means, aren’t you? But, somehow, it’s hard for most people to be natural. They usually act something which they feel interesting, hiding their best qualities deeply inside. That’s big mistake! Acting is something which people notice first on you and that really puts people off. Acting also needs too much of thinking and planning and that shows people’s duplicity and dishonesty. However, nobody does like to socialize with the person who thinks about herself whole the time thinks how to looks better or how to persuade people that he is great and perfect. Everybody loves natural persons, with which they can be what they are and think about simply things like friendships, love, and laugh. So, before you prepare your next acting role, consider the option to be natural even it’s not perfect instead.

3. UNDERSTAND YOURSELF

It’s completely normal to feel uncomfortable being honest and showing your true face. People usually avoid it, finding that cognition unpleasant. But, that’s wrong. People who are honest with people deeply understands itself firstly, admit its failings and shows the capability for sharing and understanding of other people. But once when a person become honest with it and accepts its nature he becomes more attractive to other people. Next time when you realize that you are not really sincere, remember that dishonest persons are usually selfish and egocentric and they like to manipulate with other people. Only a completely grown person can be that much honest with themselves to admit even the worst mistakes from the past.

4. BE WITTY

It’s always good to be surrounded with the people in the mood with a big smile. Many studies on the most attractive movies and short videos show that small children are more attracted with the funny videos than with those which are not funny. Grown persons seek a company of people who are funny and know how to make the interesting atmosphere. It’s proven in the laboratory that women produce more hormones with the men who are funny and they find them more attractive. But, if you think a little, you’ll find that be humorous is not as simple as we usually think. A person who is witty has to be smart, honest, strong and has a special skill to deal with the problems. It’s hard to avoid and forget all problems and simply laugh.

5. MAKE CONFIDENCE IN ANY CIRCUMSTANCES

Persons who understand the world and know how to deal with the scary things know how to deal with the low self-esteem, too. Confident in tough situations thanks to the high skills and knowledge they are dealing with difficult situations with a special ease and they always know how to avoid timidity and fear. That is perhaps a reason why those persons are highly attractive to us. Next time when you don’t know what to do next, remember Steve Jobs. He established a business from the computer made in his garage and simply forgot the unpleasantness after dismissal from the Apple, the company he made. If he could accept that, why everybody can’t do the same?

After all, confidence is very important in creating your personality and success.

6. LEARN WHAT IS ALTRUISM

Being an egoist means that nobody is important to you, so practically, you can’t attract anybody. This bad characteristic is usually followed by selfishness and greed. They always put themselves in the first place, without the feelings or empathy for others thus they are not attractive and people don’t want to have them as a friend. Selfless persons, on the other hand, are very attractive and have a lot of friends, which obviously are thankful if for no other reason, because they feel safe and protected with them. Sometimes understanding is all they need, so make sure that you showed the high interest for their problems.

7. BE TOLERANT

If you constantly criticize people, they will avoid you. Let’s say like this – nobody is perfect. You may feel that your behavior is perfect, but you can be an annoying or irresponsible person who is not aware of that problem. The same thing is with the people with whom we associate. We sometimes criticize them for their bad habits, but forget to see good things they represent. We also have no right to criticize someone for their sexual, religious or any other choices, so open your mind and accept people what they are. They maybe have a lot of things to tell you, too, but they are well mannered and those things will never come to you.

8. LEARN HOW TO HELP PEOPLE (AND DO THAT WHENEVER YOU CAN)

As you have learned that you need to be an altruist and have an understanding of people needs and troubles, you can present that concerning in practice. Try to help people whenever you can. That can be something very small and initially irrelevant, but that small help can be very important for someone who really needed it.

On the other hand, you can learn how to help people who have really big issues like being poor or diseased. You can also surround yourself with human people, make your organization or join to volunteer group which helps people all over the world.

9. BE MODEST

Having something which your friends don’t have is neither that important nor superior every time. Being intelligent or having a higher degree than your friends is also not that important and doesn’t make you a better person. Sometimes that can be annoying and offensively for the person who hasn’t that. So, honor the people around you and try to maintain the friendships without the empathizing all those amazing things in your life.

10. LEARN HOW TO DEAL WITH THE DIFFICULT SITUATIONS

You never know when those situations can show up in your life. Wisely dealing with the problems is something which you can learn even you thinks the opposite. You may not be able to learn how to cope with the losing the job, but you can learn how to acting in unplanned situations without panic and stress. People who have those skills are capable of resolving practically every problem in any circumstances. This is connected with the volunteering and altruism, too.