Signs That He is in Love With You
We are used to don’t expect that your man will show emotions. Men usually show the sympathy for the person, but nothing more than that. Even we are in a long relationship with him and feel that he is in deep love with us, that’s not sometimes clear if he is real commitment to us. We sometimes need to follow some proves or little signs to find out if he really falls in love with us. So, if you are not sure or have started a new relationship, you should read those signs and try to conclude is that really loved or not.
1. HE WILL PROTECT YOU
There is something which we can call a men behavior when he is with the loving woman. He behaves as the protector and the chevalier. That’s not just in everyday situations, like in public transportation or on the street. He will know when she is sad or has a problem on the job and try to help her to avoid those problems. Sometimes he will just hug her and say that everything will be OK and sometimes he will spend days helping her to survive a death of a loving person.
2. HE WILL RESPECT YOUR OPINION
Even it should be something which implies in every type of relationship, that’s not always a case in a long relationship. You may feel disappointing if he simply stops you in explaining or forget even to ask what you think about something. That can be a big problem in the future because you should be included in making a decision about your life. If he really loves you, he will value your opinion and don’t hesitate to ask what you think about something.
3. HE WILL RESPECT YOU AS A PERSON
It’s not only about the opinion and decision; he must respect you and your life. you may love some kind of hobbies or have animals which he never had, that’s something which he should respect and accept as a part of you. It’s interesting that sometimes people who are very different from each other are connected in some idea which connects them as invisible glue. However, he must love all you if he wants to love you.
4. HE WILL TAKES RESPONSIBILITY
Yes, he must accept your opinion, but sometimes he must be a step in front of you and make a hard decision. That will protect you and puts you not on the side, but on the safe place for the future. He sometimes must confront the person who endangers you or cut off things which become bad for you. The man who loves will not have a problem to be in the front of you and accept every obligation on him.
5. HE WILL FEEL THE PAIN YOU FEEL TOO
It’s not easy to explain, but the man who loves his woman knows how she feels. He literally feels her pain, even it is an emotional or physical pain. That’s not acting that he loves her but he simply knows her so good that understand what hurts her and how to help her to survive that. It’s something similar to the protecting her we talk about above thus man in love will transfer the pain to him, just to protect her from the pain she feels.
6. HE WILL REMEMBER EVERYTHING IT’S NEEDEDHe who forgets will be destined to remember... Click To Tweet
That’s not just remembering the important days; he will remember what is important to you. It can be a favorite color or a book from the childhood. Whatever it is, the man who really loves you will know what to remember and that will keep in mind as the first thing in your relationship. You may even feel that some things are small for you and especially for him, but he will remember even those things, too.
7. HE WILL STOP WITH HIS JOB TO HELP YOU
Whatever he is doing in that moment, he will stop with that and come to help you. That will not be just fixing a car which is broken, or opening the jar, he will come to support you or just hug if you are sad. But, don’t be too demanded. He must have his life and help you is just a part of it. Don’t expect from him to show you love in literally every moment, sometimes is enough to wait for him to show what’s needed.
8. HE WILL LOVE YOU EVEN TO LET YOU GOThe hardest thing to do is letting go not because you want to, but because you have to. Click To Tweet
That’s something which should be normal, but the man who loves a woman sometimes has a problem to let her go with the friends or on any other interesting thing she can have. That’s more than jealous, that can be abusing the woman. If he loves you, he will be sure in your love, too, and give you space to alone or with somebody else for a while. That is a true love.
9. HE WILL LISTEN TO YOU
Don’t mix up this with the blind obedience and literally listening to everything what you said. He will know what is important to you and listen to your words. He will also listen to the stories from your work and know that he must understand your daily problems. But, that’s not hard to him; he is doing that because he really loves you and everything you say he loves to listen to. However, don’t bother him with long and boring stories.